MOST people are approaching relationships mistakenly believing there's something wrong with them or with their partners because they simply have never been taught the SKILLS.

It doesn’t occur to most people, “maybe all the guitars sound like crap because I need to learn how to play guitar!” because we don’t tend to think of successful relationships as the result of LEARNABLE SKILLS.

(I’m NOT talking about strategies and manipulation—I’m talking about how to be a PARTNER, and create a fertile environment that creates maximum fulfilment, nourishment, intimacy, connection, and long-lasting PASSION. We simply have not been taught how to do this!)

We say things like

"I'm just not lucky"

"Passion fades over time, that's just how it is"

"I must not be the kind of woman who gets to have THAT kind of love"

So you continually go through guitar after guitar and thinking “Maybe I’m just not meant to play guitar since I can’t find one that sounds good and that’s easy” and “other people got the good guitars, that’ll never be me”, or even “I bought this guitar but I’ve never been able to make it sound good”.

Totally normal—Because again, you don’t know how to play guitar!

Relationships are a collection of LEARNABLE SKILLS, exactly like learning an instrument.

We tend to not see them in that way because people have been having relationships since the beginning of time—but historically, very few people actually had the skills to co-create a HAPPY relationship.

We’ve been taught to relate to relationships and partnerships from a very wounded place, but that paradigm is falling apart fast (thank goodness!).

And the problem is you’ve raised your standards for what you EXPECT from a relationship but you haven’t yet developed the skills to be a MATCH to it and that’s why it’s not working.

That’s why it feels like “all the good guitars are taken”—because NONE of them will sound and feel good until you learn the skills to play it.

You EXPECT to be treated with respect, you expect to find someone you’re really attracted to, who desires to offer everything you’re craving in a partnership...

But until you have a deep understanding of how to get your needs met and how to meet your partner's needs, you simply will struggle to feel fulfilled in relationships.

In other words, you’ve learned to expect that a guitar should sound good and feel easy to play, but until you learn how to play guitar, NONE of them are going to meet that standard for you because—honesty time—YOU are not meeting your own standard for what you expect out of a relationship.

When you have gaps in your relationship skill set, you might experience...

• Wild rollercoaster rides with most men that come into your life even for brief periods of time. Getting really emotionally attached quickly and heartbroken and/or angry when it doesn’t work out or when he ghosts
• Men starting off hot but then suddenly fizzling out, leaving you feeling abandoned
• Men wanting the benefits of a relationship with you (sex and companionship) without really actually OFFERING you anything
• Patterns of being used, led on, and lied to
• Resentment that the load of the relationship rests on your shoulders because he’s not really contributing
• Feeling a lack of sexual desire toward or from your partner after awhile
• Anger, resentment, or sadness when your partner prioritizes themselves
• Difficulty connecting with your partner (or your partner struggles to connect with you)
  

And on, and on, and on.

Basically—if you’re experiencing dissatisfying patterns in your relationships, you will benefit RICHLY from our coaching together.

PILLARS OF THE MAGNETIC FEMININITY METHOD

This is where the rubber hits the road for REAL ❤️‍🔥

1: ENERGETICS OF RELATIONSHIPS

The deep desire for a masculine partner reveals more than just what you're craving--it reveals an important aspect of who you are, which is the FEMININE 💃 But don't worry--while I'm aware that there are plenty of "polarity" teachings on the internet that are really just teaching gender roles, that's not what Magnetic Femininity is about. Here, we uncover more of who YOU are as a unique individual, what YOUR feminine energy feels like, and in embodying whatever that is for you, you become MAGNETIC to the dreamy relationship you've been craving!

2: SELF-LOVE

Feeling completely nourished, cherished, protected, and provided for in all the ways that matter to you is a predictable result of being a woman who not only loves herself, but truly embodies doing what's BEST for herself first and foremost in all areas of her life. Your relationship is a fantastic mirror for your relationship with self, so we work on creating the most kind, loving, beautifully intimate relationship with yourself so that you can easily experience that with a partner.

3: COMMUNICATION

Often we think that just because we're talking and that it's clear to US what we're saying, that that means we're good communicators. And unfortunately that simply is NOT the case. I will teach you how to truly connect your words with your heart, and create an incredible connection with your partner to create a level of intimacy you didn't even realize was possible!

 Work with me 1:1 

I love going ALL IN with my clients and working with them for a full year, AND if we’ve just met, maybe we need to get to know each other a bit before we commit to that 

Working with me might be your perfect next step if

- You’re looking to melt into your beautiful feminine energy with a strong, protective leader of a masculine partner 
- You’re dating and desire to attract the RIGHT partner this time around
- You’re in a relationship and desire to experience passion, closeness, deep admiration, and trust for your partner
- You’re in a struggling relationship and you want to turn it around and fall in love all over again
- You’re struggling in your relationship and need support as you decide if you’re staying or leaving

STEP 1: Fill out this application form here so we can chat about what you desire in your relationship (or future relationship!)

STEP 2: If it feels good, we can do a one-month “trial” with 3 calls and voxer support.

STEP 3: If we click and it feels great to both of us for that month, then we’ll go for the full year!